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You know the saying, 'dogs can smell fear'? It means that dogs can sense when you're scared, or apprehensive. Sometimes, they may even respond to that emotion. For example: if you are very cheerful and friendly, the dog may be cheerful too and wag its tail. However, if you're very scared and shoo it away, it may be confused or even intimidated.
Similarly, the people you communicate with, respond to your 'vibe'/ 'emotional state'
I can practically apply this in my own life:
I am usually self-conscious about my acne scars. When I talk to people, I try to cover my face or look away, hoping they won't notice. Hence, social interactions are usually a bit awkward, people sense that I'm insecure or uncomfortable. I create that atmosphere.
However, I have friends who have acne scars and have active social lives. They have plenty of good memories, plenty of social interactions, and they are overall very liked people.
Do you know why?
They ooze confidence. They are comfortable in who they are, and how they look.
Basically, you create the wave. People who truly care about you usually only care about your physical imperfections to the extent that you do.
If you make it a big deal about it, they'll hop on that wave too.
If you're lively, confident in who you are, they'll be confident about you too!
With love
Don't forget to be kind!
Merry Christmas Eve to you all!
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